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Steps in claiming back my children 1 year 9 months ago #17678

Good morning, am OBISESAN Babatunde I reside in Lagos Nigeria, a lady got pregnant for me without no legal marriage nd had s child and we went to d family and do d normal things nd she move to my house nd leave together, and after about 3years she have another child but during the time w are staying together she still keep cheating on me with evidence, she follow men around nd in d process w had a misunderstanding nd she pack her things nd left. Although I knw where she went to but I stand on ground that she left without my knowledge nd went with my children, that's about 3years now,she always ask me for money for d upkeep but I told her I can't bcos he went with my child without my knowledge and until she return back my children b4 I can take any further responsibility on them.
Now the 1st child is 7yrs while the younger one s 5years, nd she still refuse to bring them back but the family still want me to take their responsibility in term of providing for their needs,
Now my question s this, how can I claim back my children without going through confrontation ....thanks
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Steps in claiming back my children 1 year 7 months ago #17715

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You have to make amends. Because you are not married, the sole custody is with the mother. You still need to support your child's needs.
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